Many people looking for information from astrologers want to know about love. And who wouldn’t, really? It is a basic human need and we all are looking for it. Even after we’ve found it, we look for ways to enrich this amazing thing we’ve been blessed with. So consulting an astrologer about horoscope compatibility is completely natural, and millions of people do it every day. But is this enough? If you ask me, no.
Knowing your horoscope compatibility is not going to give you every answer you need on how to make the most of your current relationship, or how to prepare yourself for the one that is on its way to you. It is helpful yes, but as we have already discussed several times there are many other factors, Moon Signs, Ascendant Signs, and so on, and so forth. And most of the time when you get a compatibility reading, you only get a snapshot anyway. This can be helpful information, but it does not give you REAL answers like the ones that keep you up at night. This includes questions like, How can I keep my Leo happy? What do I do when I make my Capricorn angry? I don’t know if this Pisces is being real, how can I tell? Well, I’m about to tell you SOME of those secrets. Want to know if your relationship is on the rocks? Want to know how to save it if it is? Want to know what your crush or squeeze really means whey they want to stay in tonight? Find out right here with some of the most common relationship red flags, through the zodiac signs.
Aries likes to lead the pack and be the talk of every party. If your Aries is clamoring to stay in for the night or let you take charge most of the time, or starts spending more time in front of the computer or television, set your spideys on alert.
Taurus is gorgeous, charming, stylish, and secretly wants to be as glam as possible. If she starts to let her manicures go, or he starts to show up in sweats, you have a little bit of a red flag. When your Taurus declines walks in the park, gardening time, or any date that has to do with the great outdoors, another red flag. Male or female, send them flowers to get out of the doghouse.
Geminis are the chatty cathys of the bunch. If they clam up or stop talking things through with you, something is up. The last thing you want to hear your Gemini say is, I’m up for some quiet time, can you just leave me alone, or, *gulp*, I need some space. Tell your Gem no problem and wait for them to come to you.
Some of the greatest chefs in the world are a Cancer, and Princess Diana was a Cancer. Cancers love their food. If you suspect your Cancer of an eating disorder, or they have a sudden lack of appetite, you have a red flag from your Water Sign. They will also withdraw from family functions, and care less about making the home front as awesome as possible. Make them their favorite dish to sweet talk them into opening up.
Leo’s need to be admired, and as aggravating as that can be, they are not ones to hide the red flags. However, if your Leo begins to act a little incognito, you may be concerned. Another red flag is if they start wearing black, as if they are telling you they feel they are fading to black around your presence. Flatter your Leo back into your good graces.
Virgos pride themselves on order and structure. If your Virgo begins to get a little sloppy and disorganized, something is up. They will seem scattered, and bounce from one topic or project to the next without saying a word. The last thing they want is a confrontation, so tread gently. Ask them what you can do to help.
As much as Libra is a perfectionist, they are not one for arguing. If you find they are correcting your every little thing, this is definitely a Libra trait and a red flag. If you are the one in trouble, pickup a little gift that, is beautiful, and will make the Libra feel beautiful. They probably just want a reminder that you haven’t forgotten about them.
Scorpio is not one to hide their problems, so if you have ticked one off, you are probably not confused about it, and still feeling the sting. You can watch for reckless spending or a lot of talking. Scorpios go quiet when they really like someone because they are more guarded around the people they care about the most. If yours suddenly starts letting off at the mouth over every little thing, this is their not so quiet way of saying, something’s up.
Sags are great at juggling as many balls as possible at once. If yours starts dropping them or becoming obsessed with daily life, something is up. As well they love to travel, so if a weekend getaway to boost your relationship is turned down, not a great sign. A trip to the spa alone may heal their wounds, especially if it is far away.
This hardworking sign is relentless in their pursuit of success. If they start coming home from work earlier, stop looking for success, or can’t complete projects, this is a red flag. They are great sounding boards as well so if they begin to clam up, things are not looking good. The best way to get back into a Cap’s good graces is to tell them how much you appreciate their hard work.
This sign is charitable and giving and almost to a fault, and they are great in groups. When they start acting selfish or putting themselves first they are close to giving up. A surprise party would be a great way to cheer up an Aquarius.
This may be the sweetest of the zodiac signs when it comes to hurt feelings. A Pisces will throw themselves in front of a bus before they allow you to feel hurt. So if the insults and criticisms start from a Pisces, you may want to tread lightly. When a Pisces feelings are hurt, the best way to get back into their hearts is to tell them a dream you had about them that is on the…. unconventional side of things.
And there you have it, the red flags from the zodiac signs. But fret not friends, if your squeeze is showing some of these things, it doesn’t mean that your relationship is on the way out. It simply means your partner is sending you their own special message that they are not getting what they need. Horoscope compatibility can be helpful in many ways, but when it comes to connecting and communicating with the humans we love, it’s our job to do our very best to understand them better. That’s what love is, isn’t it? Accepting each other for all of the qualities that makes them so awesome. If you spot one of these red flags, do what you can to sweeten up your sweetie. You might just be surprised to discover they will do everything they can to return the favor, in kind. And that’s never a bad thing when it comes to love!