Is He Into You? 7 Ways to Find out Using Astrology

Posted on May 17, 2014
Updated on June 03, 2021

There are few questions that keep a girl up at night more than the infamous, “Does he like me?” fear that has plagued us all at least once in our lifetime. Yes, even me too! And with movies like “He’s Just Not That Into You” becoming popular mantras in every day vernacular, it can be downright depressing. One minute you think you’re happy with him, another you don’t. So how do you know? Well thankfully when you connect with us, you have one extra tool in your toolbox that some other ladies simply do not. Astrology! And astrology makes it easier than you think…..Here are the 7 easiest ways to answer this question once and for all.

1. He takes initiative.

For men, this means initiative in all areas. He calls first, texts first, and makes plans first. He also takes the initiative to come to see you, rather than expecting you to do all of the work. If your man is making you do all the legwork, things might be a little too easy for him. He may be into you, but not enough to really put the work required in.

Gold Stars: Best at this trait are Aries, Cancer, and Capricorn.

Worst Offenders: Leo may take initiative at first, but will make you do the legwork after that, as well Pisces and Gemini also like you to take the lead on occasion. Only take this as a red flag from these star signs if they are ALWAYS too busy for you.

2. He doesn’t push for intimacy.

You know the guys that are only out for booty, and there are guys that aren’t out for just that. How do you know the difference? How do your conversations go? Does he pull back with respect when you say you don’t kiss on the first date? Or does he pull back in an awkward pause and suddenly get busy after you mention you don’t get intimate until monogamy? If he really likes you, he knows you are worth the wait.

Gold Stars: The best signs for waiting are loyal Leo’s, reliable Virgo’s, and sexy Scorps who will wait for anybody, even when they shouldn’t.

Worst Offenders: Sagittarius, Gemini, and Pisces. These guys want it and they want it now, and if they don’t get it from you, they are more likely to move on than any other sign.

3. He knows what you like, and he acts on that.

Guys that like you want to know everything about you. Right down to what color of PJ’s you like most. When they find that out, they act on it. Don’t be surprised if the guy that likes you brings you a pair of perfectly pink PJ’s, just cuz he thinks you will look cute in them. The man that is attentive to those special details, is in for the long haul, or at least for longer than a booty call.

Gold Stars: Libra, Aquarius, Gemini, the Air Signs have it in the bag when it comes to details and perfection. Don’t forget to say thank you!

Worst Offenders: Pisces, Aries, and Virgo, find the little details not as important as the big picture. Communication will help you get to their bottom line.

4. He goes out of his way to see you.

It’s not enough for him to just make that contact and initiate plans. If he goes out of his way just to spend time with you, he is just that into you. Whether you live 10 minutes or 10 hours, it is all irrelevant to him, because you at the end of the journey is all that matters.

Gold Stars: Leo’s won’t stop until they get to who they want, Scorpio and Taurus are equally devoted in this respect.

Worst Offenders: The Mutable Signs, Gemini, Pisces, Sagittarius, and Virgo are too easily distracted to really commit to driving 10 hours for one date. They just don’t think it’s practical.

5. You always hear back within minutes of contacting him.

Give him minutes or hours, but if he gets back to you the same day, he is really just that into you. The longer the time span between these contacts, the less into you he really is. It really does take only 30 seconds to get out a text to someone, and if he wants to talk to you, he will. Quickly. If he doesn’t, he won’t. That simple.

Gold Stars: Gemini, Virgo, and Sagittarius who love their gadgets and love hearing from the one they like, even if they are busy working.

Worst Offenders: Capricorn, Leo, and Aries, they are more on the practical side of life and tend to put work matters first, and love second. Try not to take it personally unless it happens ALL the time.

6. He shows you off.

Either he shows you off, or talks about it like he will. Sometimes guys will over-exaggerate their girl’s job for example when introducing her for example, or he may call and ask you what the prettiest [insert job title here] in your State is doing today. He is proud of you, and you know it. This is not a booty call move, this is a, this is my girl and back off move.

Gold Stars: Taurus, Leo, and Scorpio, the fixed signs love showing off their arm candy.

Worst Offenders: Sagittarius is too busy showing themselves off, as is Gemini. If this happens too often, you will want to communicate those needs to nip that situation in the bud, or nip the guy in the bud and move on.

7. He knows what your dreams are….and supports them.

If you have a guy who hates talking about your work, your life, your big picture, you also have a guy who may give you more than your share of uh oh moments. That guy is just booty call guy who doesn’t want to get too deep. The guy that is always asking you about what is new or successful in your life, he wants you to do well because he’s crazy about you.

Gold Stars: Pisces, Cancer, and Scorpio, the Water Signs are all over their dreams, and all over their partner’s as well.

Worst Offenders: Aries, Capricorn, and Libra, are all too busy pursuing their own dreams to worry too much about yours. Again, talk this one out if you feel this is a huge concern. If you are met with blank stares, dude is telling you that he doesn’t think your dreams are important to him, never will, and is wondering why you are having this awkward conversation.

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