What does your zodiac sign tell you about how to seduce your lover? Lots!
How do you catch their eye and get them really interested in you? Whether you’re navigating a new relationship or trying to reignite the flames of passion with a long term love, every sign responds to different signals when it comes to getting turned on!
Have you ever tried to apply the characteristics of each zodiac sign to improve your love life? Of course, it makes sense that different signs respond best to specific approaches.
If you find yourself stuck in a romantic rut or just want some spicy new ideas on how to best please your lover, consider the following tips for love compatibility, tailored to each sign!
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How to Turn On Each Zodiac Sign
Have you ever wondered what you need to do to get his fire going? Wonder no more, after these tips your lover will soon be bragging about how lucky they are.
Aries – Get Your Blood Pumping
Aries rams like action — lots of it! If you want to stir the embers of the first Fire sign, start with a mutual workout to get the blood pumping.
Additionally, Aries is the Cardinal sign and this means their energy level is off the hook. And boy, does Aries love to share. If you want to get good with an Aries, pull out as many tricks as you can early in the relationship, as changing their ways, later on, will be difficult. You also want to let them be in charge behind closed doors. Fire energy is very sexy and very passionate, and whispers also work well.
Show your Aries lover you have all the right moves and lots of confidence, and he will surely be inspired to do the same for you.
Taurus – Engage all 5 Senses
Taurus the Bull loves sensuality in all its forms. Dab on an earthy, seductive scent and prepare your love chamber with low lights, silky sheets, and soft down pillows. After wining and dining your Fixed sign Bull with a delicious meal, gently lead them right where you want them to go.
Taurus is a Fixed Earth Sign and this is often why many people call them stubborn. If Taurus is your lover, their stubborn nature will come in handy as they already can’t take their eyes off you. If you need to make up with a Taurus, flowers will win every time. If you want to start creating some sparks with Taurus, get your Venus on. Pile on the lush romance and beauty and your Taurus’s eyes will be sparkling. The more romantic, and maybe even the more scandalous, the better. Taurus is the kind that loves to follow rose petals to the bedroom when they get home from work.
Gemini – Stimulate Their Brain First
Gemini twins are so mercurial it sometimes seems as if they are two people in one body. The key to capturing a Twin’s sexual attention best by stimulating their minds. Courtships that involve lots of texts, sects, and conversational banter intrigue most Geminis, and don’t be afraid to engage in a little bedroom role-playing to keep your Twin tuned in solely to you.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury and this sign also loves their gadgets and their toys. Texting works wonders for Gemini, and if you want to keep your Gemini lover focused on you all day, that’s really all you need to do. One naughty text in the morning and they will be distracted all day long at work. Don’t be surprised when you hear back from them right away, but play with your Gem and keep the intrigue going.
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Cancer – Make Them Feel Secure
Cancer crabs get their groove on best when they feel secure, so take the time to make sure that your Crab knows that he is loved and appreciated by you. This is not typically a sign that has one-night stands and Crabs like to take it slow when it comes to opening up and coming out of their shells. The intimacy you share with your Cancer lover will bring on the passion.
Cancer is ruled by the Moon and thus very emotional, but Cancer is also very connected to family. A beautiful dinner out would certainly cater to your Cancer’s sensual side, but Cancer doesn’t want you to go to that trouble. If however, you offer to do the dishes for your Cancer lover, you will be pleasantly surprised at how much they want to offer you in return. Cancer loves to share and gives as good as they get.
Leo – Make Them the Star of the Show
Leo lions perform best when they know they are your one and only. Don’t be shy about complimenting their prowess. For Leos, all the world’s their stage, and they just love to be the star. Make sure you turn all your focus on them, and they will eagerly chase after you.
Leo lovers are fixed fire signs which means they have a lot of sexual energy, and they are as loyal and brave as a lion as well. At the same time, however, they need some drama around them when their attention is being mastered. So, give your Leo a little roar once in a while, and especially when you are looking for some attention. Flattery for Leo will definitely get you everywhere, and really with Leo, all you need to do is start with the word “sexy” and you will have their undivided attention. Leo is one of those as well that you can’t set that and forget that, compliment, and repeat, and your Leo will not leave your side any time soon.
Virgo – Give Them Control
Virgos thrive when they maintain control, so let them hold the reins in bed. They won’t be able to let loose in a chaotic environment, so make sure you tidy up your love nest before inviting them in. Engage them with mentally stimulating conversation, tease them gently, and draw a warm bubble bath the two of you can share.
Additionally, it also means that they don’t need a lot of frills and fuss when it comes to love and igniting sparks. If you are consistent, your Virgo will almost always be turned on by you because knowing what is ahead is what turns Virgo on. Do not spring anything on your Virgo or it will backfire. Show your Virgo what your exciting erotic plan is for the night and they will be game on, just make sure it is in line with who you are. Big shows don’t go over well for Virgo. Appreciating how loyal and responsible your Virgo is will go a long way for you as well.
Let the magic begin!
Libra – Woo Appropriately
Charming Libras love beauty, balance, and the art of seduction, so pull out all the stops when it comes to wooing your Venus-ruled love. Let them know that you dote on them by packing lunches with sexy love notes that can fan passionate flames later and don’t be shy about gifting them with the luxury items they crave.
Libra is ruled by Venus and is also the zodiac sign that loves partnerships. So anything that is related to harmony and balance and a meeting of the minds will go over very well with Libra. As Air Signs, Libra likes things traditional so keep things missionary until Libra makes otherwise suggestion. Overall however Libra is a doting lover who is easily seduced. Use your tactile senses to your advantage with your Libra, beautiful sparkly scarves, feathers, you get the picture. If it is lush and luxurious, Libra will love it. It also must be conventional and behind closed doors, Libra is very traditional and doesn’t veer from that box very often.
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Scorpio – Up Your Game
If you love a Scorpio native, you should up your love game considerably. Scorpions are the most passionate of signs, and they love to be naughty, so don’t be afraid to incorporate some toys and games into your lovemaking. This sign loves to unravel a good mystery, so don’t show all your cards at once. Let them poke and prod a bit before the big reveal to keep them coming back for more.
Scorpio is the zodiac sign that rules the genitals, so the very word “sex” may be all that you need to capture your Scorpio’s attention. Your Scorpio will be flattered when you tell them that they are the only ones, but don’t say that if you don’t mean it or it will come back to sting you big time. Be honest as Scorpio prefers the truth, even if that means you aren’t as obsessed with them as they are with you. The more time you spend on foreplay with your Scorpio, the longer and more exciting night you are destined to have.
Sagittarius – Use the Outdoors as Your Playground
Sagittarius Archers get their kicks from outdoor activities. Turn a morning run together into a passionate encounter (or in the shower post-run) or go camping and make love under the stars. This Mutable sign loves to flirt and laugh, so don’t take each other too seriously in bed or out.
As the mutable fire sign, Sagittarius is known for being the least commitment friendly zodiac sign. But that doesn’t mean they won’t settle down, you just need to find a way to capture their attention….and keep it. Road trips and travel are loved by Sagittarius, and there’s nothing more exciting to a Sag than mixing travel with pleasure. Plan a getaway to get the romantic sparks burning with your Sag, or recreate one at home if you can’t actually get away.
A meal from a faraway land will entice many senses of your Sag, and will have you stoking their fires all night. If you want a commitment from your Sag, ask them for it while they are in the middle of doing something fun, that isn’t sex.
Capricorn – Snap Them Out of Work Mode
Cardinal sign Capricorns can have workaholic tendencies, so your job is to help them disengage and unwind. Get them thinking about love by strewing rose petals from the door to the boudoir, and once you get them where you want them, take charge masterfully so that they can really relax.
Capricorn is the Cardinal Earth sign and known for being oh so conservative, grounded, and responsible. They have to be because they are also the most successful in many cases, so keep this notion in mind when you are trying to seduce your Capricorn. Plan a sexy night after the big pitch meeting, and your Cap will appreciate you putting up with their long hours. Don’t complain about how much they work, but rather show them how grateful you are to them for that. Capricorn revels in being the boss, so suggesting a fantasy that puts them in the driver’s seat will also go off very well.
Aquarius – Use Your Mind & Body
Quirky Aquarians live their lives outside of the proverbial box, so if you want to join them in their worlds, break free of traditional mindsets when you woo them. They value intellectual stimulation at least as much as physical interactions, so don’t be shy about engaging their minds. Be open to trying new things in bed and you will be well on your way to capturing the Water-Bearer’s heart.
Aquarius is an Air sign that is easily smitten if you can tap into their intellectual side. At first, Aquarius may seem a little cold or even aloof, but get them in a witty conversation and they won’t want to stop. You also need to let them think they are in charge of the situation, and if so they will naturally lead the way sexually.
Believe it or not but word games will really get your Aquarius going if you play your cards right. Truth or Dare for example is a word game that can get as sexy as you want it to get. Tell dirty secrets, dish dirty gossip, whatever you can to keep the winds of romance flowing for Aquarius will lead to the both of you being very happy.
Pisces – Old Fashioned Romance
If you’re trying to turn on your Pisces lover, break out the romance. Send an old-fashioned love letter, pack a picnic basket with a loaf of fresh bread, some good cheese, and a bottle of vino for just the two of you. Stuck at home? Give your sweet Fish a sensual foot massage that leads to even more delights.
Pisces is the mutable Water sign and ruled by Neptune making Pisces the dreamiest zodiac sign of them all. As such, all you need to do to get what you want sexually from Pisces is play up the romance, and play it up hard. Pisces have mutable energy as well which means they are always looking for the next big thing to love or be infatuated with. Use this to your advantage when it comes to love because loyalty is not their strong suit. You can keep them pinned to your side however by always mixing it up romantically. Give your Pisces the safety and freedom to speak their fantasies to you and you will have their undivided attention for as long as you let them explore your naughtiest side of all.
Let’s Heat Things Up
There you have it! Just like our differing personality traits, each sign desires something unique when it comes to getting down to business. What are some of your best seduction tips to draw your spicy Leo or shy Cancer closer to you?
If you want to check out your love compatibility with that special someone, check out our Love Compatibility Calculator and free daily 3-Card Tarot Love spread! Now get out there and have some fun!
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