What to Do if Tarot Gives You Bad News

Posted on May 03, 2016
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Bad news is hard to swallow. Nobody wants to hear of illness in their family or be reminded of their relationship problems, so many people avoid bad news altogether. So much so that some Tarot card readers actually have policies to not tell their clients the “negative stuff”. But the truth is, bad news is often a blessing in disguise. Bad news and difficult situations in life make you a much stronger person, if you face them head-on. Embrace it and plan for brighter days ahead. Here are a few ways our expert Tarot readers say to deal with the bad news that the cards serve up.

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Consider the placement of the card

Seeing a “negative” card appear in your Tarot reading can be frightening. The first thing to look at is the card′s placement — the physical location of the card in the Tarot spread. The cards in your Tarot reading are laid out in the table in a specific pattern. The spread helps determine the actual meaning for each card as it relates to your life. Spreads feature past, present and future outlooks, based on their placement.

  • Negative cards in the past
  • If your negative card is placed in the past, the negative situation is behind you.
  • Negative cards in the present
  • If it′s in the present (which may be the reason you′re getting the reading in the first place), this negative energy is moving out of your life.
  • Negative cards in the future
  • If the negative Tarot card is in the future, you have the ability to change the course of events — or, at least, take control of them. But if you don′t make the proper adjustments to your life, that negative situation may still occur. Placement is your biggest clue when it comes to the not-so-happy cards showing up in your Tarot reading.

Avoid the power of negative thought

There′s a belief that negative thoughts become realized if you spend your days worrying about the worst that could happen. By obsessing on the negative, you might actually cause negative situations. Beyond the mental trauma caused by constantly harping on the worst possible scenarios, there′s also a physical toll — lethargy, stress, reactiveness … and it′s easy to attract double trouble if that′s all you′re focusing on. Remember that one negative card does not dictate your entire spread. A skilled reader can show you the bright side of your entire spread. Focus on the positive while remaining aware of the negative.

Have an open mind during your reading

The best way to get the most out of your Tarot reading is to be as open as possible to all possible scenarios. You don′t get a reading to confirm what you want to happen; you get one to confirm what is happening and why, and the possible outcomes. Put away your fears and expectations, and just let the process unfold. Many times, we book Tarot readings to answer specific questions, closing ourselves off to other issues that may need addressing. But the Tarot cards don′t lie. They always reveal an answer, sometimes just not the answer we were hoping for. Remember to focus on the light cards that do show up (as they always will). This will help you be more open to any negative news that may arise.

Speak honestly to your Tarot reader

It′s important to be open and honest with your reader — the same way you would be with your doctor or therapist. Psychics, mediums and Tarot card readers know when people are being defensive or holding back. And even if they don′t pick up on it, the cards will. You′ll get the most out of your reading by answering the questions of the Tarot reader honestly and openly — trying to make them guess will boggle both of you.

Ask your Tarot reader lots of questions

Some people think that having a Tarot reading done is a one way communication street. Absolutely not! It′s your money, your time and your life. Ask as many questions as possible, and if you run into a reader who isn′t addressing your concerns, you may be seeing the wrong person. A good Tarot reader will walk you through every card, ask you questions and talk about the situation at hand. They expect you to communicate with them through the process as well. Ask questions about their interpretation of the cards, and ask for clarification if you feel you need it. Remember that you′re allowed to ask your Tarot reader as many questions as possible, in your allotted time. Be respectful and mindful of that and your reader will lead you to the path that gives you answers to the important questions.

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The last step: make an action plan

Getting great news in a Tarot reading is one thing. Actually obtaining the wonderful things you′ve been told, while avoiding or confronting the negative, is a whole other challenge. The goal is to leave your Tarot reading with an action plan: a tactic to address the answers you were just given. When you have that, negative news from a Tarot reading means much less. You already know what you′re going to do about it. A good Tarot reader will ask you, in those last few minutes of your consultation, if you have any questions. Here′s your response: “What is my action plan to reach these goals?” They′ll either know the answer right away, or they will pull a couple of more cards for you to get that answer. Either way, a good reader will not let you leave without that question answered.

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