Use Venus in Virgo to Heal Communications in Romantic Relationships

Posted on July 07, 2018

Venus is entering Virgo, and you might be wondering what to expect. Venus is the planet that affects how and in what way we show our love to others, while Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the sign of communication. What do we do?

This transit brings on very interesting qualities and energies. This is a time to relax and bask in the joy of fine arts, clean spaces, and Earthy tones. Venus acts as a sort of Himalayan salt lamp for romance — it can effectively rid your relationships of negative energies. As Virgo is ruled by Mercury, we can expect communications to run more clearly or crumble entirely. Right now, your relationships are dependent upon the communicatory efforts that are brought into the relationship by each partner.

Communication is key right now. If you’re having problems communicating with your partner, this is a time to reevaluate what’s working and what isn’t in your relationships. Remember that every problem has a solution, and read on to find out how to make this Venus in Virgo transit work for you.

Beauty-Loving Venus in Earthy Virgo

Virgo is a sign that contains a very natural quality in every sense of the word. Being an Earth sign, Virgo is connected to that rooted center of our globe’s core. The energy of Virgo is that of nature, Mother Earth, and perfection. Virgo is a sign that seeks perfection, or as close to perfection as possible. Therefore, scrutinization is prevalent when dealing with this sign or any transits that embody and promote the Virgo energy.

Before we dive into the specific aspects of this transit, we want to remind you how important it is to go easy on yourself and loved ones during this time. Even at the best of times, it can be difficult to remember that we are all people who have flaws; this transit promotes a judgmental point of view, especially when it comes to romantic relationships.

So, before you go any further, make a promise to yourself and your loved ones to keep an open mind and an open heart until August 6th, when Virgo enters Libra and encourages balance.

Virgo is a sign that promotes and celebrates innocence and purity; during this transit, you’re likely to desire a pure, unconditional love from your partner. But, it’s important to remember to share that unconditional love on your end as well. Try to let go of any judgmental tendencies right now. We all make mistakes and we are flawed. We can’t exactly expect others to accept our flaws if we refuse to do the same for our loved ones, so try opening your heart and mind to the good and bad aspects of your friends’, family, and loved ones’ personalities.

This is not a time to distance ourselves from others due to uncomfortable issues, this is a time to work them out and move forward to understanding and acceptance in our relationships and friendships.

This transit has the potential to truly heal injuries that have previously existed in our relationships, showing us the way to open communication and forgiveness. These energies need to unfold organically, so avoid the temptation to force a connection. Mercury’s nature will most likely promote open and honest communication that will enforce your relationships naturally. Don’t try to make anything happen in your friendships or love connections right now; allow your relationships to take their natural courses. Even though it can be hard, sometimes we need to move on from connections that no longer serve us.

Like a helpful and cosmic gardener, Venus in Virgo is a useful and beneficial time to evaluate relationships and determine whether they are still flourishing and worth watering.

If you happen to be single right now, keep your eyes peeled for signs of a spark in existing or new relationships. This transit is curious and anxious to bring together the elements of love and communication. There may be someone who’s been eyeing you for a while that finally confesses their crush , or you may be the one with the crush to confess. This is a great time to get that energy out in the open and begin addressing it.

And last but not least, this is an incredibly creative influence, with Venus’ love of beauty and Virgo’s Mercurial desire for communication. You might find yourself writing sonnets, poems, prose, or songs. Find a way to communicate your feelings with the Universe around you; you’d be surprised how often the Universe is waiting and excited to help you out.

Concluding Thoughts…

Venus in Virgo is a time for love, communication, creativity, reasoning, logic, and practical application of the magic of the Universe. Don’t underestimate the mystical and powerful forces of this transit in regards to our relationships. Breathe in the loving energy of Venus and exhale to find yourself grounded in the earthy energy of Virgo.

Related Article: Love Gets Real with Venus in Virgo

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