Attract Love This Valentine’s Day With This Beautiful Ritual

Posted on February 12, 2017
Updated on July 10, 2020

Love rituals and spells are a sensitive matter. On the one hand, you want to fall in love and you want someone to love you. On the other hand, you have to consider your karma. Do you really want to force someone to fall in love with you?

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Love is Pure and Free of Coercion

Would you be happy knowing that loving you wasn’t your lover’s free will, but as a result of the coercion of your spell? What if someone else wants the same person; are you going to have to keep working more and more powerful spells to keep them around?

Also, what happens if you decide you no longer want this person in your life? Will you have to do a spell to get rid of them? What does your ritual and spell mean for the future of their life?

It’s complicated! In the nearly 40 years that I’ve been working in astrology, numerology, and tarot; love is the biggest question on everyone’s mind. People would spend insane amounts of money to try to get someone to fall in love with them if I were to let them.

More often than not, I would also be helping them to pick up the pieces when it all backfires. Why did it all go wrong? There are many answers to that, but it usually all boils down to the wrong kind of approach.

A love ritual that really works won’t manipulate someone else into falling in love with you. That’s just bad juju! It interferes with their free will, and that’s bad karma which you will carry with you.

Focus on Attracting Love

A real love spell will work on you, so that you attract the love that you’re meant to be with.The keyword there is attract. If you’re not being the best version of yourself you can be, then you’re not going to attract the best possible lovers into your life.

It’s a simple principle, this Law of Attraction. You have to develop yourself into the person who is attractive your desired partner in order to actually attract the ideal person who you want to be with.

Of course, that doesn’t mean that you have to be perfect or change your entire personality. You’re not destined to be alone if you don’t get it right. It’s intent that makes the difference. The intention is everything.

So, let’s work this love magic with two intentions. The first intention is that you’re going to work on your inner self so that you make the most of all your assets and your talents, and you learn how to counteract your flaws.

Next, let’s focus on drawing the best match for you into your life. It doesn’t have to be soulmate stuff, soulmates and lovers are often two different things. You want a life mate, a partner, someone who will be the perfect compliment you, and that is completely possible!

How to Conduct the Love Spell

For this love ritual, you’ll need the following items:

  • A bottle of spring water
  • Chamomile tea
  • Jasmine tea
  • Rosemary (fresh or dried)
  • A spoonful of sugar
  • A fresh rose bud (available from either the grocery store or a florist)
  • A pink jar candle
  • A box of matches (not a lighter)
  • A cup and saucer (pottery or glass, not enamel or plastic)
  • A bud vase

Do this spell when the Moon is waxing—going from new to full. Friday is the best day of the week to do the ritual. If you can hit a Friday when the Moon is in either Libra or Taurus, then you’ve struck gold—especially if Venus is in there, too!

Do not do it when Venus is just about to go or is currently in retrograde. This will happen from March 8—April 17, 2017. A reputable astrologer can help you figure out exactly the best time to perform the rite.

At the appropriate time, gather all your things together. You don’t want to have to be scurrying around at the last minute! If you’re coming out of a bad relationship, have a cleansing bath or shower prior to performing the spell to help you to rid yourself of any residue from that break-up.

Start by boiling the spring water in either a pan or a kettle (boiling it in the microwave will work, too.) Put the hot water in a glass jug. Next, make a tea by adding the chamomile and the jasmine. Let the mixture steep while you perform the rest of the spell.

While the tea is brewing, light the candle with the matches. Pour the tea into your cup, and sweeten to taste. Pick up the rose, and pass it next to the candle, and then next to your teacup. Do this a few times and as you do, repeat the following phrase:

“Sweet as the sugar in my tea
I notice you and you notice me
Pretty as the petals of this rose
We find each other, and love will grow”

Now drink the tea. Once the tea is finished, add a tiny pinch of the rosemary to the bud vase, along with any tea you didn’t drink. Put the rose into the vase (make sure the water isn’t hot). Pinch out the candle and put it next to the rose. Place these two items in a place where you’ll see them every day.

Should the rose start to fade and wilt, save some of the petals from the flower and repeat the spell as often as you wish to reinforce what you’ve set in motion. Place the dried petals of this first rose with a fresh rose bud when you complete the ritual again.

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I absolutely promise you that this is a love spell that really works. You’ve done the magic and now you have to trust that in the appropriate time, the universe will send you the best person for your life mate. You just need a little faith in the magic, and in love, but most of all in yourself.

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Hi! I’m Charla Stone and I learned astrology and mysticism way back in the 1970s. I’ve spent the last four decades using the stars, tarot, runes, crystals, totems, and more to… Learn More About The Author »

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