Cancer Love & Relationship Compatibility: Heightened Emotions

Posted on July 14, 2020

Two lovers kissing under the Moon while standing in the ocean.

Cancer season is upon us, and we’re basking in the feelings of creativity, intuition, and emotional sensitivity that this sign brings into our lives! Today, we’re going to dive into Cancer love compatibility to celebrate our Cancer friends, and learn a little bit more about astrological matches.

Cancers naturally make us feel at home with their nurturing nature. So, let’s take a look at this loving sign’s most and least compatible zodiac signs.

The Cancer Zodiac Sign & Love

Cancer is a Water sign, signs that are deeply connected to their emotions and intuition. Further, Cancers are ruled by the Moon, the planet in astrology that represents our emotional selves. As you can imagine, when Water joins the Moon you can expect a plethora of emotional energy swirling in the air. Cancers follow their heart more than their head – they do what feels right in the moment.

This can also cause conflicts because what feels right in the moment may be based on a passing emotion. For instance, a Cancer who feels slighted may feel that confronting that person or exacting their revenge is the right thing to do – only to find out later that they may have misinterpreted a comment or slightly overreacted.

This is why Cancers need to find a balance between emotions and logic.

If they don’t have this balance, you’ll see their moody, vengeful side. Cancers do whatever they can do to avoid confrontation, which means they might shut people out, or show anger. This can be difficult for their partners to deal with.

Cancers are domestic by nature, and they love spending time in their own home. Think of the symbol for Cancer, the crab, and its cozy shell. This shell, or the home, is where Cancer feels most comfortable on a daily basis. This does not mean, however, that Cancers don’t go after what they want in love and life!

Cancers are a Cardinal sign, which in astrology means that they’re the leaders of the zodiac. Cancers take charge, and they follow their intuition while they do it. With stubborn Fixed signs who dig their heels in, and adaptable Mutable signs who need freedom and variety to be happy, Cardinal signs will generally give in to keep the peace.

Astrological Compatibility

It’s important to remember when looking at astrological compatibility that any two signs have the potential to get along.

There are so many more zodiac signs, aspects, planets, and placements in your natal chart that determine true compatibility far more accurately than merely looking at two Sun signs together. For a true exploration into your compatibility with someone else, you’ll need the keen eye of an advanced astrologer, who can run a relationship synastry chart.

Keeping that in mind, there are certain Sun signs that just seem to mesh well together. Before we dive into the most and least compatible signs for Cancer, let’s take a look at some of Cancer’s personality traits and see what makes them so special and enigmatic in love.

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Cancer Relationship Traits

Positive Cancer Relationship Traits

  • Intuitive
  • Mysterious
  • Creative
  • Sensitive
  • Nostalgic
  • Charming
  • Warm
  • Compassionate
  • Honest
  • Loyal

Negative Cancer Relationship Traits

  • Moody
  • Overly sensitive
  • Manipulative
  • Insecure
  • Vengeful

In romance, how is the Cancer moved? How are they wooed? What makes them feel twitterpated or smitten?

Cancers prefer a relationship that is built on a foundation of loyalty, honesty, and trust. Because they can be insecure and sensitive, they need someone who understands their moods and won’t play games with their tender heart. Due to their desire for a strong foundation, a great romance for a Cancer and spring forth from the waters of a deep friendship.

As a Cancer, you probably won’t be able to settle down with someone who always keeps you guessing, or makes you feel like you’re unsure of where the relationship stands. You need someone who will be upfront about their feelings, someone who is willing to be there for you emotionally when you need to talk about yours.

If someone shows you that they’re worth the effort, you’ll go above and beyond for them. You’re a natural nurturer, and you feel best when your loved ones are happy and healthy – and you’re deeply protective of those you love and care for. You need someone who is willing to ride the emotional waves in exchange for a deeply loyal, faithful, and caring partner.

And while each and every trait listed here may not apply to every Cancer under the Sun, most Cancers will agree that they’ve experienced these aspects of their personality emerge more than once in their lifetime.

A great partner for Cancer will prove loyal and stable, helping build a foundation of trust and security. It’s time to explore Cancer compatibility and take a look at the signs that pull at the heartstrings of a Cancer Sun sign.

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Cancer Love Compatibility

While the zodiac signs highlighted here may be more or less compatible with Cancer than other signs, it’s important to remember that any two signs can make a relationship work. Elements of astrology can play just as big of a role as the actual signs, as signs ruled by the same element tend to naturally gravitate towards each other.

Most Compatible Zodiac Signs

These are not the only signs that can excite a Cancer, but these pairings to tend to create the most romantic, dedicated, and delightful results.

Review your own zodiac sign love compatibility!

Pisces

Pisces is a fellow Water sign, meaning that you both traverse the depths of your emotions. You’re also both creative and intuitive, and you may join forces to create works of art together.

Pisces are imaginative and dreamy, so Cancer’s natural leadership abilities can help corral the Pisces’ tendency towards fantasies and daydreams.

If you two can learn to speak openly and honestly about your feelings, this can be an exhilarating union.

Scorpio

Sharing the Water element with Cancer, Scorpios are also mysterious, deep, and otherworldly. Scorpios can help Cancer explore the mysteries of life, moving beyond the daily minutia and towards the Universal wisdom that we can all possess.

Scorpios are rather possessive, but Cancers can understand this aspect of their behavior themselves.

If these two signs can form a strong bond and let go of any fear of intimacy, this can be a deeply romantic connection. However, you’ll need to communicate frequently about your needs and desires with each other.

Taurus

While Taureans are an Earth sign, they share something special with Cancer, and that is the desire for material wealth and success in their field. These two can encourage one another to live their best, most luxurious lives together.

Should they share a home, it might be the most beautiful, opulent home you’ve ever seen.

These two know how to live it up, but they might encourage lavish spending and indulging in one another.

Virgo

Virgo is another Earth sign with a much different personality. That being said, the Virgo personality shares the desire to serve others with the Cancer.

These two will pamper each other like nobody’s business, and a union shared between a Virgo and a Cancer is likely to be deeply loyal and protective. Virgos don’t open up with their feelings quite as much as Cancers do, so you may have to get creative when it comes to sharing and intimacy.

Least Compatible Signs

These signs could potentially vibrate with Cancer, but they tend to clash!

Aquarius

Aquarius is an Air sign, meaning they tend to live in their heads and avoid what’s going on in their hearts. Aquarians like to think things through rather than follow their feelings, which can drive a Cancer nuts.

Aquarians are also quite aloof, and tend to keep their feelings of affection to themselves, whereas a Cancer likes physical displays of emotion. While open communication and compromise can help these two signs form a solid bond, there may be discrepancies in their romantic styles.

Sagittarius

Sagittarians are ruled by Fire, and as such they are rather feisty. In fact, Sagittarians are known for their blunt delivery. They’re honest, almost to a fault. And sensitive Cancer may not respond well to the frank manner in which Sag shares their opinions. Which may prompt Sagittarius to reply with another blunt response, forming a cycle of criticism and sensitivity.

While Sagittarius is an optimistic sign, this frankness may cause conflict when paired with a Cancer.

Libra

Libras are the second Air sign to make this list, and their romantic style is nearly as detached as Aquarius’. While Libras can be romantic at heart, they tend to see romance through an intellectual lens, rather than feel it with all their heart. Libras are also social butterflies, and they want to spend lots of time out in the world, surrounded by friends and family.

This can grate on Cancer’s more domestic sensibilities, and it can also cause jealousy in Cancer to see Libra be so open and flirtatious with others. Cancer might not understand why Libra needs to spend so much time with other people when there’s love, good food, and beautiful art at home.

Learn about Cancer’s compatibility with Aries, Gemini, other Cancers, and Leo.

Riding the Emotional Waves with Cancer

Even if you’ve made the least compatible list, don’t let that deter you from following your heart!

If you’ve got your eye on a Cancer, don’t be dissuaded. Astrological compatibility is simply a guide that helps us narrow down certain elements and signs, giving us a better sense of the big picture.

You’ll need to know much more about each person’s natal chart before you can truly determine whether you’re a match made in heaven. There are many factors that play into compatibility, such as the 7th house placement – the house that rules relationships, for example. If you’re interested in learning more about your specific compatibility with another individual, contact an experienced astrologer and ask them to run a relationship synastry chart.

But remember, anyone can enjoy the creative, intuitive, charming nature of the Cancer personality. Now get out there and enjoy!

Related articles: Characteristics & Personality Traits of the Female Cancer, Characteristics & Personality Traits of the Male Cancer

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Rhiannon Liselle is a nomadic Sagittarius with a passion for writing and trying to help others grow. She’s studied astrology for about 10 years, and has been writing about… Learn More About The Author »

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