aquarius Love Horoscope

Oct 04, 2022 - The Moon is in Aquarius and in your 1st house of self today, this is emphasizing the importance of self-love within your romantic partnerships. Is it easy for you to remember that you are just as important and worthy of taking care of your own needs and wants as those of your partner? 

If not, today would be a great time to set the intention of practicing more of that. Relationships are a lot healthier and more successful when the people involved are able to experience depth and intimacy on their own. 

This indicates that you and your lover are coming together as two independent and fulfilled beings of your own and are much less likely to fall into patterns of codependency. 

When you are full of love towards yourself, you are able to share it with others without feeling resentful or desperately wanting anything in return. 

Oct 05, 2022 - The Moon is in Aquarius and in your 1st house of self, however it is also squaring Uranus in your 4th house. This configuration is highlighting the importance of being able to spend time with your partner where you don't feel urged to "do" anything but are able to just rest in the emptiness and be. 

It is a necessary part of any healthy relationship to be able to be fully present with your lover without having to always do something or distract yourself. 

It is also a crucial aspect of self-love to just allow yourself quality alone time to refill your energy reserves and rejuvenate. This permits you to be full and capable of giving even more to your lover. 

Oct 06, 2022 - Do you feel that your romantic partnerships bring you closer to your values? Does your partner have values that are in alignment with yours? These are necessary questions to reflect on today as the Moon is in Pisces and in your 2nd house. 

It happens a lot that people end up in relationships that are not necessarily bringing them close to what they hold dear in their lives.

Naturally, they end up being unfulfilled, resentful and those connections don't last very long. Ask yourself how you can make sure that the partners you attract have (more or less) similar values as yours. Of course, you will always have certain things that you disagree on, what matters the most is that those things are not fundamentals and that both you and your lover are able to respect one another despite your differences. 

Beyond that, how can you learn to not be too rigid and learn to adopt different values that you may end up finding true to you?